When a couple who is madly in love finds out that they are going to be having a baby, it usually brings them closer together. They start to plan out the next chapter of their lives together with the new addition to their family. Bigger boobs, a wider belly, swollen ankles, your body undergoes incredible changes to house the newest little addition to your family, and during this transformation, the relationship with the guy on the outside of your womb will change as well. That love tends to start out very strong but, unfortunately, unforeseen events may arise and people fall out of love for many different reasons. Sometimes both people fall out of love, other times it is completely one-sided.
Keep reading to find out why these pregnant moms fell out of love!
Mother 1 – “I love him but I’m not in love with him anymore, I’m also pregnant and don’t want my child growing up without father. What do I do?”
This sounds a bit confused because she loves her boyfriend, but she’s not in love with him anymore. Things like this happen to more people than we are aware of. Life happens, and you can’t always help the battle that goes on inside your head when you know you love someone, but you just are no in love with them anymore. Sometimes it doesn’t even have to happen for a reason, it can just happen out of the blue. It can honestly be like a light switch getting flipped on. For this woman, we can sympathize because she doesn’t want to be with him anymore, but she wants her child’s father to be there for her baby. She says she doesn’t know what to do but a woman, or a man, should never stay with someone just because of a child. Both parents can still be in that child’s life regardless if they are together or not.
Mother 2 – “I don’t think I am in love with my fiancé anymore. But I am also pregnant with his baby.”
This soon mom to be said that she is no longer in love with her fiancé but that she is pregnant with his baby. We can’t help but wonder if she fell out of love before she got pregnant or after she found out she was with child? If it was before, then the question is – why did she stay in the first place? It is understandable that sometimes people stay because they are comfortable, or because they feel they have nowhere go. If it is out of comfortability, it is not worth staying and being unhappy. Unhappiness leads to stress, agitation, and sometimes depression. All of which is not good for an unborn baby. Why risk it?
Mother 3 – “I don’t think I love my boyfriend anymore and I’m pregnant with his baby.”
Sometimes it can be hard to tell when the love has truly faded – at least at first. The fact that this woman said that she thinks she doesn’t love her boyfriend proves that. She also said that she is pregnant with his child. Hopefully, she finds a nice and easy way to confess that the love is gone to this poor guy. She needs to try to find a way that will minimize stress on her and that won’t crush her boyfriend too hard – if that’s even possible. It is important for her to let him know what’s going on and how she really feels. It is not going to be easy – that’s for sure – but it needs to get done and it would be best if she did it before their baby arrived.
Mother 4 – “I’m not in love with him anymore and don’t know how to tell him. Oh and I’m 8 months pregnant.”
This woman is not in love with her significant other anymore and she is confused as to how to tell him she doesn’t want to be with him anymore. She also confessed that she is eight months pregnant. That is a hard time to be breaking up with someone. She should probably sit him down and talk to him before their baby is born because this way he will know what to expect. Maybe she should start out with the company line of, “It’s not you, it’s me,” and then go into how people change as time goes on.
The pregnancy hormones surging through your body can have a profound impact on your emotions, triggering your feelings of panic. Everything is happening to you. Aside from a couple of congratulatory back slaps or a handful or cigars tossed his way, most of the excitement about the pregnancy revolves around you. And since he can’t exactly help you grow that thing, he might not feel so connected to it or to you, at times. You might go through a temporary feeling. Make sure to discuss with your partner about your feelings before coming to any conclusion.
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