Your relationship has finally hit the pivotal moment to pop the question. When your future husband gets down on one knee, you want an engagement ring that you’ll love wearing, and he won’t want to propose with anything less. Even if you shop for rings together, the day he asks the question can still remain a surprise. The goal is to be happy with the ring—it’s a symbol of the marriage to come. Here are a few tips for engagement shopping as a couple.

Set a Budget

Before you go shopping, make a game plan—you and your partner should set a price for how much you’re willing to spend. Skipping this step can ruin the experience, and the last thing you want is to fall in love with a ring that your partner can’t afford.

By keeping a budget in mind, you work as a team and respect each other’s views. You’ll want to have this discussion in private before you start shopping so that you can make any necessary compromises without an audience.

Know Your Style

Before you hit the shops, know what cut and band style you prefer since this can simplify your search and prevent you from feeling overwhelmed. Also, keep what kind of gemstone you want in mind. While diamonds are traditional and beautiful, other gemstones have advantages, too. A bride looking for a pop of color may prefer a gem, but others may love a diamond’s shine.

If there’s a specific setting you love, consider trying it on, as some may look better in the jewelry case than they feel on your finger. It’s essential to keep an open mind in terms of ring appearance and comfort.

Narrow Down Your Search

Make sure you know your ring size because, once you’ve found your style in the store, it’s time to start trying some on. Remember to avoid those that aren’t in your agreed budget since there’s no point in trying on rings you can’t afford.

Throughout the process, keep notes to review later of everything you’re looking for and what you do and don’t like. You don’t have to buy your ring the first time you go shopping. Give yourself some time to think about your options since the goal is to be delighted with the one you choose.

Make a Date Out of It

Of all the tips for engagement shopping as a couple, it’s crucial to have fun with your partner and keep communication open. Go out for a meal or drinks to celebrate after you’ve spent some time browsing to make it feel more like a date. Keep things light and make it a day to remember—after all, this is one of the first steps in the wedding process.