Sometimes, the things women do that bother men are signs that the relationship is doomed. Fear of change and ignorance often prevent men from speaking up for themselves, from raising their hand and saying, “Enough already.” Men and women alike will turn their heads at things their significant others do in order to pretend everything’s fine when really, they are settling for something they may not want in the long run. There are red flags a man shouldn’t ignore when thinking about whether both he or she is in it for the long haul.
If she’s giving you the following signs, then it’s time to listen to your instincts.
She puts you down in front of others: Fun and jokes apart, if she regularly puts you down in front of friends, family, acquaintances then you can rest assured you are dating a devil. It is wrong to give anyone the power to put you down and if your girlfriend puts you down more often than not, this it’s time to safeguard yourself respect.
She brings out the worst in you: Some people just drive us to the edge. They bring out the worst in us and get us to react in ways we thought we were incapable of. If this person in your life is your girlfriend, the one who brings out the devil in you, you must end the relationship.
She shows no affection towards you: If she does not express her love or affection for you it could mean two things: either she is bad at expressing herself or feels no affection for you. In either case, you are the one on the losing end. Why show your affection for a person who does not reciprocate?
Sometimes, you just can’t stop hating her: Sometimes all it takes is one little straw in a tornado to break through a brick. Suddenly, the little things she’s said and done all along bother you to the point where you can’t even believe you are actually with this person. It could be a casual dinner or outing where she treats people in the service so poorly that you get more to these feelings of misgiving than simple irritation. If little things like this bother you, there could be more to these feelings of misgiving than simple irritation.
You’re never allowed to do anything without informing her. If she won’t let you hand out with your friends, then she obviously doesn’t trust you or respect your independence. You might be a “couple”, but you are still a person, an individual who can do what he likes to do.
Don’t ignore the sings, and instead, listen to your gut instinct. If you are not completely feeling the relationship and would rather be alone than with the person you’re dating, then your instinct is probably right. You know very well what you need and desire. No one else can tell you exactly how you’re feeling or what you’re thinking. Once you are confident and strong enough to realize this, then you are one step closer to meeting someone who does understand you can make you happy.
